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When Summer Dreams Meet Reality

We've all been there. Pinterest boards filled with perfect family activities, camp registration forms promising \"magical experiences,\" and that nagging feeling that somehow, we're failing at summer before July even arrives. The gap between our summer expectations and reality feels wider than ever — and Rev. Susan Howson knows exactly why.

\"People think vacation means everything gets easier,\" Susan tells me during our conversation, her voice carrying the warmth of someone who's seen thousands of families navigate this exact struggle. \"But what happens is everybody gets in each other's face 24/7, and all the stuff you haven't dealt with gets amplified.\"

As the founder of Kids Coaching Connection and creator of the internationally acclaimed \"Manifest Your Magnificence\" affirmation cards, Susan has spent over two decades pioneering what she calls \"magnificence coaching\" — a revolutionary approach that transforms how families, camp counselors, and educators show up for the beautiful chaos of being human.

And she's about to change everything you think you know about surviving summer.

“I used to think my job was to fix the mess. Now I know my power is in how I sit with it.”

The Teacher Who Changed Everything

Susan's journey to becoming what colleagues call \"the magnificence whisperer\" began with profound loss and an unexpected gift. When grief threatened to consume her after losing her grandmother, a teacher appeared who understood something most adults miss: authentic presence matters more than perfect solutions.

\"That teacher didn't try to fix me or push me toward false positivity,\" Susan reflects. \"He just created space for all of me — the grief, the anger, the confusion — and somehow

that made room for my resilience to grow too.\"

This early experience of someone truly showing up became the blueprint for her life's work. Today, Susan holds multiple coaching certifications (MA, PCC, CPCC, CHBC), and has earned the prestigious ICF PRISM award for her groundbreaking program development.

But her real credential? Twenty years of helping people discover what she learned in that classroom: you don't have to be perfect to be magnificent.

\"You don’t need a script to parent. You need the courage to return—again and again.\"

The Camp Counselor's Secret Weapon

Every summer, something interesting happens in camps across North America. Counselors start with enthusiasm, kids arrive with expectations, and by week three, everyone's wondering why this \"fun\" thing feels so hard.

Enter Susan's Kids Coaching Connection Camp Training (KCCCT), a program that's revolutionizing how camps handle the inevitable challenges of putting humans together intensively.

\"We design every relationship,\" Susan explains, \"and that includes how we want to be with each other when we forget, when it doesn't work, when our emotions go up — because they will.\"

Her approach trains counselors not to avoid conflict, but to navigate it authentically. Instead of maintaining constant cheerfulness (which research shows actually undermines resilience), counselors learn to model emotional agility — showing kids how to work through disappointment, negotiate differences, and return to connection.

The results speak for themselves: camps report decreased staff burnout, improved camper behavior, and something harder to measure but impossible to miss — genuine joy replacing performed happiness.

The Affirmation Revolution That Started It All

Twenty years ago, when Susan created her first set of affirmation cards, the positive psychology movement was barely a whisper. Today, affirmation cards flood the market — but Susan's remain different, and the reason reveals everything about her approach.

\"I get kids in Brazil and Mexico,\" she tells me, pulling out a card that reads \"I am a Shining Star.\" \"I give a kid this card and they go, 'Is that really me?' They're crying, holding it, asking 'Can I believe this?'\"

The difference lies in what's on the back: \"I maka a positive difference in the world.\"

\"It's not about ego,\" Susan explains. \"It's not about standing up and saying 'I'm a shining star and you're a f***ing idiot.' It's 'I'm a shining star and so are you. How are you going to take being a shining star and put that into the world?'

TThis distinction — between healthy self-regard and narcissistic inflation — guides everything Susan teaches. Her cards don't create entitled kids; they create empowered ones who understand their magnificence comes with responsibility.

The Words That Wound (And How to Heal Them)

During our conversation, I confess to Susan about the casual cruelty that slips out during parenting stress: \"What are you wearing? You look ridiculous.\" Simple words that stick longer than we ever intended.

Susan's response is both gentle and revolutionary: \"Buckminster Fuller stopped talking for three years after his words failed his son. Then he started writing about the power of our words, our intentions, our expressions. It's about the awareness of impact that most people aren't aware of.\"

She shares the story of the brilliant inventor who, drunk on victory after a soccer match, forgot to bring his dying son the promised pennant. When the child died, Fuller's guilt drove him to three years of silence, followed by decades of writing about the power of intentional communication.

\"We want to be the best version of ourselves,\" Susan says, \"and that's different than the belief that we need to be perfect.\"

This philosophy permeates her Kids Coaching Connection program, which teaches adults to catch themselves mid-mistake, course-correct with grace, and model the kind of authentic repair that builds trust rather than shame.

The Next Generation Challenge

Twenty years into her work, Susan has identified something that would sound like science fiction if it weren't so demonstrably true: the children being born now are different.

\"They're more intuitive, more in tune. They'll answer your question before you ask it, and it freaks parents out,\" she laughs. \"It's because they're quantumly connected. You're communicating without language.\"

Her observation extends beyond metaphysics into practical parenting reality. Today's children are \"more sensitive to what's happening in the world, more sensitive to what's happening with themselves and with others. Because they're kids, they just don't know how to navigate that.\"

This heightened sensitivity requires what Susan calls \"a deeper awareness of who our kids are as well as who we are as parents.\" Her programs now address not just traditional behavioral challenges, but the unique needs of children whose emotional and intuitive intelligence often exceeds their developmental capacity to manage it.

The 50 Million Kids Mission

Susan's goal sounds audacious: \"Increasing the self-esteem of 50 million kids in 5 years.\" But when you consider her track record — international programs, bestselling books, award-winning training systems — it starts feeling inevitable rather than impossible.

\"I think we need to increase that number now,\" she admits during our interview. \"People are understanding the importance of self-esteem, self-awareness, and self-efficacy. Not ego—honoring the gifts and talents you have.\"

The distinction matters crucially. Susan's work doesn't create participation-trophy culture; it builds genuine confidence based on authentic self-knowledge and contribution to others.

\"When are we more successful — when we feel really shitty about ourselves or when we feel really good about ourselves?\" she asks. \"But it's not about giving every kid a gold medal just for showing up. We have to work toward what is true.\"

The Summer Survival Strategy

So how do we actually implement Susan's wisdom during the intensity of summer family time? Her approach is both practical and profound:

Design Your Relationships Consciously

Before the chaos hits, have the conversation: How do we want to be with each other when someone gets overwhelmed? What do we do when expectations clash with reality? How do we return to connection after conflict?

Embrace the Mess

\"Show up authentically in the human-ness and the human mess,\" Susan advises. \"Honor who you are, honor whoever you're working with. Don't judge the judgments — learn from them.\"

Focus on Internal Reinforcement

Instead of constant external praise (\"That's the most brilliant picture ever!\"), ask questions that build internal awareness: \"Tell me about the colors. What was your thought process? How do you feel about it?\"

Practice Repair, Not Perfection

\"We're going to make mistakes,\" Susan acknowledges. \"It's about going back and saying, 'Let's talk about this.' That unconditional love — regardless of anything — that's what research shows matters most.\"

\"You are the lesson they’re learning—every single day.\"

The Transformation She's Really After

When I ask Susan about her ultimate vision, her answer transcends summer camps and family dynamics:

\"For every single person on earth to understand their magnificence. The person sweeping the street, the person going into space, everyone in between. When we understand our magnificence and why we were put here, and we support each other to do that, we are happier and healthier and make the world a better place — it's not about competition, it's about collaboration.”

This vision drives her remarkable generosity. When other coaches want to create affirmation cards, Susan shares her process freely. \"There's how many billion people in the world? If mine doesn't reach them, theirs might. Good — we need more positivity.\"

Your Summer Invitation

As our conversation winds down, I'm struck by how Susan's approach offers something our performance-driven culture desperately needs: permission to be human while pursuing excellence.

For parents facing the summer stretch ahead, her message is both simple and revolutionary: You don't have to be perfect to be magnificent. Your struggles don't disqualify you from greatness — they're where greatness gets forged.

\"What I see, \" Susan tells me when I ask about stressed-out parents trying to do it all, “is someone wanting to do the best they can for themselves and the people in their lives. It’s not about trying to do it all. It’s about honouring yourself too. Take time to just be and celebrate each other. We don't celebrate each other enough just for the sake of celebrating. There’s nothing that needs to be done to celebrate. We're already doing it. We're together.”

This summer, instead of chasing the Instagram-perfect family experience, what if we practiced Susan's invitation to show up authentically for whatever emerges?

What if we designed our relationships consciously, embraced our beautiful mess, and trusted that our magnificence — and our children's — doesn't depend on getting everything right?

In Susan Howson's world, that's not just enough. That's everything.

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